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Post by ravyne on Jan 22, 2009 22:55:28 GMT -8
larger family to belong to. Really? Okay, Girl Bit, it's seriously not about how large the family is, it's about the relationship between sire and childer. Honestly, I would hope that this is more a call to talk with people and get to know them before a decision is made, and not an attempt to get hooked in with a big family because you view them as a meal ticket. *shrug* Oh no Seyda.. that wasn't what I meant at all. Priss and I had spoken previously about families and how nice it is to have siblings and parents/grandparents around. As everyone knows, Murrz has left the City and severed most of my siblings. The only family I would have to offer her would be me, my 3 mostly silent daughters and one sister. My statement had nothing to do with her looking for a large family as a meal ticket.. perhaps I should have clarified my statement further. Sorry for the misunderstanding.
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Post by seyda on Jan 23, 2009 4:00:12 GMT -8
But why should you HAVE to offer her a large family? Shouldn't YOU be enough? That's really the only point I'm making...
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Post by ravyne on Jan 23, 2009 20:29:50 GMT -8
well of course I would be enough.. I just know how important family can be as since I am lacking family at the moment, it makes for a lot of loneliness in the City. Thanks Seyda for reminding me that a sire alone should be the most important thing. *smiles*
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Post by seyda on Jan 24, 2009 7:33:51 GMT -8
Ravyne, you REALLY are freaking me the fuck out. Just so you know.
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Post by Juliden Loveless on Jan 25, 2009 13:55:49 GMT -8
-Hovers his hand, hesitantly, then resumes.- Well, as pointless as it may be. I wish the best for your search, I wouldn't mind having a Childe. But, I rather hassle myself with getting all my Powers and working on a relationship right now. Once more, Best wishes. -Dips his chin, bowing his head only slightly then lofts off-
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Post by Josephine on Jan 25, 2009 14:02:49 GMT -8
Ravyne, you REALLY are freaking me the fuck out. Just so you know. She is stealing my job? Oh no, wait I bemuse you..ohh ok Ravyne go ahead my job security is not at risk. When making a choice for a sire it is very much the sire that counts. Do they hold the same values as you? Are you compatiable? Are they micromanagers while you are independant? Are they distant while you need a sire who is right there holding your hand? All these weigh in to finding the perfect sire. I would be misrable if I took a sire who felt the need to hold my hand and guide me through everything; but on the same token I would be just as unhappy if Seyda ignored me completely. Only after narrowing the option of sires down should you start to weigh in family. Mostly I look at them with 'can I get along with my future siblings? Will my sire get along with my childer?' The sire matters most but family does factor in; if only to manage the chaos of a line move. After all this, I can rather happily say taking my time was worth it. I have a sire I can respect and talk to, but not one who has the need to manage my life to the extent of meal times and potty breaks have been outlined for me. *sends little electronic <3's to Seyda*
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Post by Juliden Loveless on Jan 25, 2009 15:21:24 GMT -8
-Peers back into the papers,wincing.- Oh, bu--. -Lofts back off.-
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Post by Priss on Aug 3, 2009 22:55:39 GMT -8
Hmm, it seems I am still looking for that sire.
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Post by Master Dracula on Aug 4, 2009 9:48:53 GMT -8
G'luck, Priss
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Post by seyda on Aug 4, 2009 13:46:08 GMT -8
Work on having a strong relationship with someone, and the sire/childer dynamic will just fall into place. That's my advice.
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Post by Priss on Aug 6, 2009 17:22:58 GMT -8
Thank you but it doesnt work for me. I have tried, but thanks
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Post by Do Not PM this Account. on Aug 6, 2009 17:53:02 GMT -8
IT doesn't work for you to have a strong relationship with your sire?
Okay.
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Post by Priss on Aug 6, 2009 23:53:53 GMT -8
No thats not what I ment. I can't seem to find any one that I speak to on a regular base to where I become close and the posibility of being sired happens to pop up. I rather become friends and close before sire and childer
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Post by seyda on Aug 7, 2009 13:07:33 GMT -8
Well, it all depends on dynamic, too. If all you do is surround yourself with those that can't teach you anything, then yes, you'll end up with a friend dynamic. You should really sit and think about what sort of things you wish to learn, and then look for someone who has those qualities that can then teach them to you...
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Post by petit_prince on Aug 7, 2009 13:11:03 GMT -8
No thats not what I ment. I can't seem to find any one that I speak to on a regular base to where I become close and the posibility of being sired happens to pop up. I rather become friends and close before sire and childer Stop listening to yourself and being a pussy. Go see the mean bitch above, you won't find two ones worth as much as her in this whole forsaken city, so stop fucking around and talk with her until she agrees to sire you. Or not, and then stop bugging us and talking to yourself. Move your arse, or have it handed to you.
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