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Post by Uriah Solus on Apr 15, 2009 11:21:13 GMT -8
She was already bound to someone who wasn't around for over a year. You expect her to subject herself to that again? That's a bit insensitive. No, he's not leaving. but he's not going to be around. Why should she have to sit around and wait for him to show up once every blue moon? If that's not what she wants to subject herself to, she shouldn't have to. Doesn't mean she loves him any less. It just means she's not willing to go through it again.
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Post by Do Not PM this Account. on Apr 15, 2009 11:28:25 GMT -8
S'not what I'm saying, Roomie. My point was this. If you don't want to subject yourself to it again, DON'T do it in the first place. Talk about it. If that's a deal breaker, then you MIGHT want to address that before you get bound instead of dropping someone on their ass with no notice because you feel they aren't around enough to pay you attention when you demand it.
2 days before I even reported the severance, Zee was wandering around the ghettos asking me if his wife ignoring him when he tried to talk to her was a bad thing. It begs the question.
If he TRIED to spend time with the bint and she blew him off, then severed him without TELLING HIM (when he was clearly around to tell, if he was trying to talk to her) then don't you think that's just a tiny bit inconsiderate? It doesn't exactly lend itself to love to know that you ignored your husband when he was trying to spend time with you on the seldom occasions he is here, only to pitch a fit and sever him without notice (when notice COULD have been given) two days later.
It means she's not willing to face conflict and wasn't exactly committed to the relationship in the first place.
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Post by Drakhaon on Apr 15, 2009 12:05:57 GMT -8
Your infinite wisdom is astounding Coquette. Are you using random cards to decide what you have to say without the need for gathering all information on the subject matter? Bad girl.
Condolences to both.
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Post by rel on Apr 15, 2009 12:12:54 GMT -8
Oh for the love of... really? You think they didn't talk? You know this or just pontificating again with your prowess of insight you so distinctly blather on about when it's just a unwarranted opinion.
The ghettos? He was looking for her in the ghettos? *snorts* you should really stop...right now...
They came together, they loved, he grew tired of the city, she didn't...she wants to be here and he wants to rest. She clearly stated what she wanted within the advertisement. A partner. One to explore the city, go out to different bars or dances. To participate in what the city has to offer, not just prefer shadows. Perhaps he couldn't change that aspect of himself. Perhaps it wasn't within him to want to. It's not beyond the realm of possibility that they parted without all of the drama filled nonsense that as been referred to.
You're worse than TMZ...honestly...
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Post by deaths embrace on Apr 15, 2009 12:16:09 GMT -8
He knew..His words were,
"Nothing is going to change so make a decision."
He is not happy in this city. He finds no happiness in it. I let him go so he could be free to explore without having to worry about coming back to a place he was bored of. As for ignoring? I never ignored him, I welcomed him every time I saw him, but that of course was not enough either.
I wish him luck and happiness, he does deserve that, but I know he was not happy with me.
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Post by Katastrophe St. John-Talon on Apr 15, 2009 12:51:42 GMT -8
Not trying to speak for DE, but when I said that she was bound to a shadow-dweller for over a year, that's to say he was in shadows for at least a full year, not merely hanging out there part of the time, but there all the time.
Again, condolences to you DE. I hope you find happiness again.
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Post by Jenny on Apr 15, 2009 13:28:38 GMT -8
Condolences, DE. I say without hesitation that you'll find someone.
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Post by TooL on Apr 15, 2009 16:31:35 GMT -8
For those of you who think that Coquette didn't gather as much info on the subject she could before making her opinion and stating it here, you're sadly mistaken. So stop, just stop.
DE, I do wish the best for you in the future, I do think that a bit more discussion was warranted. But what's done is done.
I know I can't say much on the subject without being completely hypocritical because I too had a partner who was completely in shadows for a long period of time.
Relsav, seriously quit fucking starting drama, it's unnecessary and annoying. Frankly, you're making yourself look like more and more of an idiot the more you talk.
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Post by Vera on Apr 15, 2009 17:16:29 GMT -8
Condolences Zad and de. Good luck on your separate paths.
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Post by Tifereth on Apr 15, 2009 17:35:21 GMT -8
Relsav, seriously quit fucking starting drama, it's unnecessary and annoying. Frankly, you're making yourself look like more and more of an idiot the more you talk. You do realize Coquette started the whole drama thing, aye? Just saying. Eitherway. I hope your wounds heal.
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Post by Tifereth on Apr 15, 2009 17:38:22 GMT -8
Yes, because every woman's intention when they get bound is to do whatever they want without consideration of their partner, including severing. Good ridda-- I mean, good luck. << Just so they won't say I'm being snippy and so on. Aye, staying on topic...-chants under her breath- Commiserations.
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Post by Nichola Maldetto. on Apr 18, 2009 17:24:45 GMT -8
Condolences.
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