aristeen
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Post by aristeen on Jun 29, 2009 19:23:17 GMT -8
Seyda, my condolences and well wishes to you my friend. Good luck Maji in your seperate path.
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Post by thewitchnyoureyes on Jun 29, 2009 19:48:57 GMT -8
*Frowns* Im sorry to hear this *Hugs the both of them* Good luck though...
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Post by Valens Dragosee on Jun 29, 2009 20:08:05 GMT -8
Does anyone really want to have a Childe of theirs make a lateral move to become a brother or sister? Not only can this happened, it probably has. I can think of one instance of this occuring and there are probably more instances than I know. I guess it simply depends on perspective, you could view it as a simple betrayal or you could view as something great about the family as a whole that people would like to stay within the whole despite it not working out between two people. That said, condolences Seyda.
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Post by DiablaVampira on Jun 29, 2009 21:26:14 GMT -8
-kisses her mother's cheek gently- I'm sorry that this happened, Mama...I know that you will be okay..You are strong-willed. Seyda, good luck in whatever that happens to you...Don't take it the wrong way, but I hope that it doesn't bite you in the butt later on...
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Post by Pulse St. John on Jun 30, 2009 0:44:36 GMT -8
Condolences.
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seyda
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Post by seyda on Jun 30, 2009 3:56:59 GMT -8
The last time I spoke to Majica, the conversation ended after I was told that she hoped that this would make me hurt like she has. In this period, I learned that Majica uses ultimatums religiously and that her love comes with contingencies. I don’t deal in ultimatums and my love doesn’t come with strings attached. Good luck to the Wildes in their future endeavors and Majica, I’ve cried my last tear for you. No, what I said is that maybe now you could understand my pain and hurting too in this situation.
And after a year and a half of being your childe, I'm sad if this is the only thing you feel you can take away from our relationship.
I'm sorry.. I told you many times before you decided to Sire Pulse that I couldn't be his sibling and that it would make me unhappy. I don't consider that an ultimatum, I consider that doing what would be best for me after you made your decision. I am so sorry you felt hurt in the process. I'd have spared you if I could. Majica, your guilt trips work on me no longer. You can spin this however you like, but the simple fact is that I told you what was brewing and rather than trust that I would make a decision thinking of you, you threw a fit more befitting a 4 year old and gave me an ultimatum. So, please, take your "I'm sad if this is the only thing.." and "I am so sorry you felt hurt..." crap and save it for the next sucker who believes in you as much as I did. Well, forget that, because I can assure you that no-one else in this city is going to flip off the "cool kids," take you on, and give you anything near what I did. So good luck with that. I'm sure you'll need it.
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Shina
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Post by Shina on Jun 30, 2009 4:41:20 GMT -8
Does anyone really want to have a Childe of theirs make a lateral move to become a brother or sister? If it came to that, absolutely. Belzebub is an excellent teacher who's given me a lot, and if my childer would feel that he would better match them than I would with teaching methods and advice, then it's a sacrifice I would make. What's on my mind as a sire is what's best for them, not what will end up hurting me. Swallow whatever pain there is and do what's best for them. It comes with the job. I'm sorry that was off-topic, and although I don't know either of you, I wish you both the best.
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Elisha
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Post by Elisha on Jun 30, 2009 4:47:08 GMT -8
I always find it sad that so many are so injudicious and swift to stick the daggers of their words into the sadness of such painful moments. Regardless of whom is to blame or their reasons surely such announcements should not be so riddled with hate-filled words typed on a screen and so easily sent at the push of a button for all to see and read in this newspaper.
Decorum and manners are so easily pushed aside when low blows and lack of compassion are easy to wield. Whatever Majica’s reasons are for leaving they must mean something to her, I see no reason to attack anyone, not her or Seyda, or to turn this into a three ringed circus where even the clowns have run off at the spite-filled words.
We all handle things differently and we all have different levels of tolerance, this was obviously Majica’s.
When the city rose in anger and cast their disparaging opinions at Majica over her going to Seyda she took the abuse and did what was best for her, now she chooses to depart because she finds she cannot stay where she no longer feels happy or safe, again the city rises and shakes its fist and fills the paper with its insults at her choice. The irony is she will do what she feels is best for her and her family under her, as you all would and most likely continue to do so for many years to come
To the two ladies involved; may you go into your future with your heads held high and may happiness always find you and sadness loose it’s way in the dark path behind you.
Elisha
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Moons
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Post by Moons on Jun 30, 2009 5:45:39 GMT -8
Very nicely said, Elisha. Thank-you for your neutral viewpoint, and words of understanding.
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Chiru
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Post by Chiru on Jun 30, 2009 6:25:27 GMT -8
Elisha is correct and worded it perfectly at that.
In the end one must do what their heart says. Majica needed to leave for her own personal reasons to make sure she was happy. Whatever the reason may be, no matter how much one disagrees with her choice, it is her choice, it is her happiness that she's shooting for.
The same goes for Seyda and the choices she makes, it must be for her own happiness in the end, for you can't make everyone happy you can only try to make yourself happy in the actions you take.
To be honest, she's sad that this has come to past, Majica seemed to really enjoying being apart of your family Seyda and to be honest you seemed to enjoy having her apart of it (or what was seen in the public in either case). Though in this mess hate seems to be the major focus and most likely pain which is causing this hate.
Can only hope that in time you two can push back the pain and the hate that has come from this and become good friends, but with how this city works perhaps that is nothing more then hopeful thinking.
In either case, best wishes to both of you in your new paths.
~Chiru
*virtual snuggles the daughter for her wise words*
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TooL
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Post by TooL on Jun 30, 2009 7:16:24 GMT -8
I just wanted to wish both ladies luck in the future whatever their path may be. It's really none of mine or any other's business.
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Damari
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Post by Damari on Jun 30, 2009 18:17:12 GMT -8
Whatever - dammit - those Bible Beaters are in my BLOODLINE! Fucking hell you two, don't you know that you're related to me? Can you try for a little scathing retort. That's just embarassing.
*grumps*
At any rate. I never did like ole Wonky Tits. She IS the person who managed to cut off her great grand childer for having the IMPOSSIBLE stance of complete neutrality. Dude, she was never really good at making wholly sensible decisions.
And if you remember I did ask if you'd lost your mind when you sired her. So no great loss to your bloodline as far as I can see.
Now don't you owe me some money for something?
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Post by gittelbug on Jun 30, 2009 22:02:23 GMT -8
best of luck to you both
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Elisha
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Post by Elisha on Jul 1, 2009 0:23:05 GMT -8
Whatever - dammit - those Bible Beaters are in my BLOODLINE! Fucking hell you two, don't you know that you're related to me? Can you try for a little scathing retort. That's just embarassing. *grumps* Well someone has to balance out your scathing remarks Bible hmm, now you should read a page or two, we could go to church together and pray for world peace. *Grin*
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Damari
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Post by Damari on Jul 1, 2009 1:26:35 GMT -8
I have do-good-ers in my bloodline... Someone shoot her.
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