seyda
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Post by seyda on Oct 18, 2009 14:25:13 GMT -8
Do you really think the first thing I did was to jump on the bandwagon?!?!!? I argued, pleaded, reassured, cudddled and had sex with him, and he'ss still set on this. So please, next time you pass judgement from on high maybe you should ask if something's been done before you assume it hasn't? I love him too much to let him think what he does without trying my damndest to help him to see that he is enough for me, a year of being engaged will do that to people. OMG, you've been with him a YEAR? Wow, I'll just shut up now, because there is no way that I'd know anything about relationships being that I've been with my partner for 3 1/2 years and all... But hey, I take it all back. If you hopped on his cock and he still wanted another one, then maybe that's the issue. *shrug* Have fun with it!!!!!! |
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Lameth
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Post by Lameth on Oct 18, 2009 14:46:53 GMT -8
Do you really think the first thing I did was to jump on the bandwagon?!?!!? I argued, pleaded, reassured, cuddled and had sex with him, and he's still set on this. So please, next time you pass judgment from on high maybe you should ask if something's been done before you assume it hasn't? I love him too much to let him think what he does without trying my damndest to help him to see that he is enough for me, a year of being engaged will do that to people. Well DUH stupid, he's not saying he's not good enough for you because he actually thinks that. He's saying it so you go along with his every word like a lap dog. What he's really saying is, YOU aren't enough for him, and that's why he proposed this idea, because he wants more. Common sense, use it. |
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Post by Driretlanish on Oct 18, 2009 18:11:59 GMT -8
Do you really think the first thing I did was to jump on the bandwagon?!?!!? I argued, pleaded, reassured, cudddled and had sex with him, and he'ss still set on this. So please, next time you pass judgement from on high maybe you should ask if something's been done before you assume it hasn't? I love him too much to let him think what he does without trying my damndest to help him to see that he is enough for me, a year of being engaged will do that to people. OMG, you've been with him a YEAR? Wow, I'll just shut up now, because there is no way that I'd know anything about relationships being that I've been with my partner for 3 1/2 years and all... But hey, I take it all back. If you hopped on his cock and he still wanted another one, then maybe that's the issue. *shrug* Have fun with it!!!!!! In case you haven't heard of semantics, let me enlighten you, engaged and relationship are not always mutual terms, you can be in a relationship without being engaged, what, do you think the first thing out of my mouth when we met was "Will you marry me?" honestly, there you go putting words in my mouth and assuming again Of Course we've been together longer than a year, perhaps not as long as you and your partner, but we've been through our bouts and fits before. And Lameth, I'm sorry, but no, just no.... Each of us is what keeps the other going, keeps us from walking into the sunlight or going into torpor never to return, I can show you what would happen if I tried to leave him, it's happened before when I was in torpor for awhile, I found him after I woke standing on the roof of a skyscraper waiting for the sunrise. |
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Moons
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Post by Moons on Oct 18, 2009 18:59:38 GMT -8
Those without the ability to stand on their own will always fall.
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Drew Draken
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Post by Drew Draken on Oct 18, 2009 19:03:37 GMT -8
Wow, I don't even know what to say to this.
It all sounds contradictory to me. He loves you and everything you give him, yet he wants/needs someone else?
I have to agree with Lameth on his words of wisdom and I suggest strongly with the advice given about a counselor of sorts.
Clearly there is more going on here...perhaps even with ones self.
If you both really love the other than that should be enough. If it is enough for you and not enough for him...I'd honestly say you are better off.
But good luck on your endeavor, it will be interesting to see where this takes you both.
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Post by Driretlanish on Oct 18, 2009 19:12:09 GMT -8
He doesn't want someone else, he says I need someone else, I don't particularly want anyone else though.
And I'm curious, with all the shaking up in the family tree lately are we still related Drew?
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Drew Draken
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Post by Drew Draken on Oct 18, 2009 19:18:02 GMT -8
And I'm curious, with all the shaking up in the family tree lately are we still related Drew? Your sire and mine are sisters under Chiru, so it would seem so. As for what he says you need...perhaps it is a 'nice' way of him saying he might be suffocated a bit. Not trying to be mean-but maybe he enjoys a more relaxed relationship while you prefer the other. I think you two need to find a happy medium and perhaps the idea of a third person would be tossed out the window. |
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Post by Driretlanish on Oct 18, 2009 19:42:56 GMT -8
Well then, it's a pleasure to meet you again cousin dear..
Anywho, you may be right, when we're together it's almost constantly sex and closeness, we both love it, but maybe he does feel a bit claustrophobic at times
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Sweets
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Post by Sweets on Oct 19, 2009 2:52:53 GMT -8
Definitely look for a counselor, Dri. I've been engaged to Fador for 1 1/2 years now and neither of us have ever said we aren't good enough for the other and maybe we should bring in a 3rd. Sounds to me like he might be bored with the sex and that's why he wants you to bring in a 3rd. Just my 2 cents, not making any judgments.  |
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Damia
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Post by Damia on Oct 19, 2009 2:57:38 GMT -8
*As she read over this confused mixture of ad and discussion, nothing but pity could be felt for the one who advertised*
"It would seem sir that hes all to willing to let you seek another for yourself, along with the commentary and attacks on your relationship. At the least this sounds as if you two should sit down and talk about what you feel for the other. For to me, it sounds as if you do not want this, that you merely go through this motion to please one who can not be bothered to step in here and defend your relationship as you are doing now. Sometimes there are those relationships, in which one cares more then the other. You claim he cares deeply about you but then why would he emotionally blackmail you to find another? Especially given when most times, a third in a relationship causes it to crumble. It would seem sir you need to sit down your significant other and have a long serious talk. Instead of trying to do things his way and find this type of bandaid that will probably prove a bad decision in the end."
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Boomerangele
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Post by Boomerangele on Oct 19, 2009 8:49:51 GMT -8
Just go visit an adult toy shop together and have a shopping spree. A third pyre emotionally complicates issues. I recommend the shop, Toys R Es , run by a vampire some in this City may remember. I fully endorse the swings. |
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Post by SilentAria on Oct 19, 2009 9:50:52 GMT -8
It was his idea...... I tend to bow to my beloved's requests, but at the same time, he knows I'll never leave him, that I love him, this is so my pet will have someone to play with too.. Grow a pair. |
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seyda
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Post by seyda on Oct 19, 2009 10:10:09 GMT -8
OMG, you've been with him a YEAR? Wow, I'll just shut up now, because there is no way that I'd know anything about relationships being that I've been with my partner for 3 1/2 years and all... But hey, I take it all back. If you hopped on his cock and he still wanted another one, then maybe that's the issue. *shrug* Have fun with it!!!!!! In case you haven't heard of semantics, let me enlighten you, engaged and relationship are not always mutual terms, you can be in a relationship without being engaged, what, do you think the first thing out of my mouth when we met was "Will you marry me?" honestly, there you go putting words in my mouth and assuming again Of Course we've been together longer than a year, perhaps not as long as you and your partner, but we've been through our bouts and fits before. And Lameth, I'm sorry, but no, just no.... Each of us is what keeps the other going, keeps us from walking into the sunlight or going into torpor never to return, I can show you what would happen if I tried to leave him, it's happened before when I was in torpor for awhile, I found him after I woke standing on the roof of a skyscraper waiting for the sunrise. If you're getting a third cock, then each of you is NOT what is keeping the other going. Instead, you're both left wanting. You can get as pissy as you want with me, but the more defensive you get, the more I know you're hearing what I'm saying. |
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seyda
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Post by seyda on Oct 19, 2009 10:11:30 GMT -8
Just go visit an adult toy shop together and have a shopping spree. A third pyre emotionally complicates issues. I recommend the shop, Toys R Es , run by a vampire some in this City may remember. I fully endorse the swings. *thumbs up* |
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Drew Draken
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Post by Drew Draken on Oct 22, 2009 10:31:23 GMT -8
Well, it seems you two must have worked things out. Good luck
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