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Post by Beezil on Nov 21, 2009 0:35:05 GMT -8
It wasn't deleted. It was thought of because Maji's human considers it Harassment. ...but Maj's human is not Majica... That was a thread for the character where she and any other characters are supposed to be allowed to come and express their opinion/s on the issue. I'm not condoning what happened or the posting of pictures which I'm thankful I didn't see, but it does seem to me that certain freedoms were revoked unfairly here... Just my 2 cents. People really need to learn how to separate IC and OOC... You can't get pissed OOC because people are harassing your vampire IC... That's crossing. Pretty sure Sirena doesn't like that sort of shit. ::edited to add the quote, due to my post being on a new page::
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Post by Majica on Nov 21, 2009 0:37:57 GMT -8
So you're just talking about that thread and that particular topic??? DAMARI took that thread to continue mocking Majica yes. No doubt about that. But that's not an ooc concern at all.
I mean, I can tell you're in turmoil about it but is it wise to bring this up ooc at all? It seems a big opening for this to carry on ooc where it shouldn't. Why bring it ooc at all? It seems so unnecessary.
I'm not going to harrass you ooc about it and I will state that I did not in any way bring this up at all in context to you personally. If the thread remains locked and away. That's fine with me, and I don't mind waiting for Sirena to get here to make that decision. If that is going to happen. I didn't bring it to OOC.. you did with your question as to why it was locked and subsequently, locked again. I mean surely you know not to continue on with a locked thread?
And it wasn't about a mocking Pawai. Let's be real. It was to bring on a hatefest which I really don't appreciate. I, the player, see it as continued harassment of my character when she clearly answered Damair's question the first go around. The fact that yours chose to ignore it and continue it elsewhere after the thread was locked was just wrong.
If you're not going to harass me OOC about it, then I'd appreciate this thread ending here and now, and I thank you.
Again... I appreciate you respecting my wishes.
:Monica
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Post by Louvain on Nov 21, 2009 0:38:29 GMT -8
I'm honestly completely outraged at having been harassed all night to deal with this bullshit.
The rules are simple. Don't post sexually explicit content and follow TOS. I shouldn't have had to be texted all night to come home and deal with this when I was trying to go out for ONCE and spend a few hours watching my best friend perform and seeing some friends that I haven't seen in months. I sat outside for hours while people sent me messages about this in 30 degree weather and tried to deal with it as best as I could when I said THREE TIMES EACH to four different people that I wasn't home and could not fix it for you.
That's why I've hired supposedly capable of moderators so that I might actually get to enjoy a night out once in a while.
The thread shouldn't have been locked for "language" period. Bite is a free speech newspaper and forum and the word "bullshit" isn't naughty or bad and voicing an opinion on whether or not it should have been moved is fine. So that was wrong and I'll unlock it. I'm sorry I wasn't home to fix everything for everyone but I wanted to enjoy one night out. Next time I'll rethink that.
As for Puawai creating thread after thread after thread to rehash this, IC and OOC, knock it off. I don't want to hear about it when it could have been dealt with privately either way. I don't want to be harassed over this stuff by proxy because I'm trying as hard as I can even when I'm 30 miles from home in the freezing cold on a CELL PHONE. Majica's original thread is locked, I'll discuss with the mods what is and is not an appropriate reason to lock a thread, and people can keep doing what they need to.
But if I ever get harassed so much that I have to come home to deal with this immature stuff again, I might as well just scrap everything. It's ridiculous and uncalled for and I am not the only person who can moderate Bite anymore so don't ruin my night over game shit. Please.
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Henry Key
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Post by Henry Key on Nov 21, 2009 0:41:24 GMT -8
This is almost like the time where Arch/Archangel said attacks by the Splinters of Dusk were automatically considered harassment.
Somebody actually had to get Sirena so she could deal with this? Whoever did that, I just have one thing to say: WHAT THE FUCK.
You're on a forum, online, and your CHARACTER ONLINE had some comments said to them that you the player did not like, so someone goes and GETS THE ADMIN who has a real life and doesn't need to deal with this shit. Just so they could say something about a situation that someone blew out of proportion.
Look, if you think someone has an unpleasant character, gtfo of any threads they post in and don't read what they say. Don't harass a mod/admin so they can comment on your IN CHARACTER life which means nothing.
Edit: wording in a few places might've been off.
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Post by Majica on Nov 21, 2009 0:43:59 GMT -8
I'm not condoning what happened or the posting of pictures which I'm thankful I didn't see, but it does seem to me that certain freedoms were revoked unfairly here... Just my 2 cents. People really need to learn how to separate IC and OOC... You can't get pissed OOC because people are harassing your vampire IC... That's crossing. Pretty sure Sirena doesn't like that sort of shit.
::edited to add the quote, due to my post being on a new page:: They weren't pictures, they were screenshots of a post from the Wilde family site where Maji and Sheri got close, then decided it wasn't for the best to continue on and stopped short of making love. But David/Pulse intentionally omitted the last part of the thread so it reflected otherwise. I would consider that manipulating a situation that just didn't happen, and he knows it.
Also, to have an alt on someone's family board, then cross anything from charrie to charrie.. sorry, to me, that's crossing and wrong.
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Damari
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Post by Damari on Nov 21, 2009 0:44:07 GMT -8
<- didn't wake up the admin....
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Post by Damiana Jones on Nov 21, 2009 0:44:47 GMT -8
I'm going to play devil's advocate.
Technically since both characters are viewing the Bite online, the threads still can be locked due to harassment. It's like any other online forum. Really, if Damari did what she was doing on any other forum, not only would the thread been deleted, she'd been banned. If the moderators wanted to see it as that IC terms.
OOC terms...I feel like it's a gray area. I'm sure Monica was okay with it at first. But it did start getting out of hand. It's her character too. And I think that needs to be remembered. Just because you (generally speaking) wouldn't go about it this way just as Monica has, doesn't mean that Monica is in the wrong. She said she doesn't play like that. And if she doesn't play like that, I think it needs to be respected. Not..."Oh, you're wrong. You're a crosser. Why are you bringing it into OOC? Blah blah blah." We all play this game differently. Some can ignore the heckling of their characters. And some can't.
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Damari
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Post by Damari on Nov 21, 2009 0:45:46 GMT -8
<- did send nice PM to moderator who PM'd me and will consider next time, not bringing this into ooc. Didn't see this one coming since I did say I'd wait for Sirena's decision either way and that I wouldn't contact her Y!M for any reason...
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Post by Damari on Nov 21, 2009 0:46:08 GMT -8
<- sorry you got woken up Sirena
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Post by Louvain on Nov 21, 2009 0:47:34 GMT -8
Honestly I'm in a big frustrated tear fest over all of you.
Let me reiterate, in big shiny capitals so you all shut up and leave it be.
IT'S FINE TO POST STUFF FROM OTHER BOARDS AS LONG AS YOU DON'T BREAK TOS BAD LANGUAGE IS NOT A GOOD REASON TO LOCK A THREAD PUAWAI, QUIT BRINGING IT UP AND SPAMMING THE BOARD ABOUT IT, AND TAKE YOUR ISSUES UP WITH ME PRIVATELY IF ANYONE DEMANDS I COME HOME EARLY TO DEAL WITH THIS AGAIN, I'M PROBABLY GOING TO BAN ALL OF YOU
Okay?
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Henry Key
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Post by Henry Key on Nov 21, 2009 0:48:30 GMT -8
Some can ignore the heckling of their characters. And some can't. What's that cliche called? "If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen"?
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Damari
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Post by Damari on Nov 21, 2009 0:49:34 GMT -8
Okay
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Post by Damiana Jones on Nov 21, 2009 0:50:52 GMT -8
She did get out of the kitchen. The thread is locked, isn't it? She just closed down the kitchen for everyone else in that thread.
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Post by Louvain on Nov 21, 2009 0:51:26 GMT -8
I didn't get woken up. I got harassed until I came home from watching my best friend play a concert so I could deal with it. And I'm sick of it.
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Henry Key
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Post by Henry Key on Nov 21, 2009 0:53:37 GMT -8
Nobody has the right to drag someone out of real life onto a goddamn forum, no matter what the situation is. I don't care if the Pope has a character here.
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