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[Damari]

Can you just explain why it was locked a second time?

[Damari]

Whoops, that was meant to go PM.

Too many tabs open *waves away this post*

[virgo_shelly]

Yes, said threads are getting out of hand when people start posting pictures they shouldn't be. The topic should be left alone. IE: Drop it for now, If at a later date you wish to bring up such subjects again, please post them in Off Topic.

[Majica]

Nov 20, 2009 23:39:57 GMT -8 Damari said:

Can you just explain why it was locked a second time?

I think perhaps, once a thread is locked, it's locked for a reason. To take it elsewhere and continue it after it's been locked? Meh, it's just wrong. But that's my opinion.

:Monica

Edit cause I can't spell!

[Damari]

The moderators aren't there to moderate on POTENTIAL content.

They are there to moderate on ACTUAL content. If you make it your job to police something before it's even happened, then that is an abuse of power.

I mean, I don't know about Monica, but I certainly hadn't planned to put nudey pictures out there. And since the actual thread locked for a second time hadn't had any rule infringements in it at all - then that is just plain wrong.

You're moderating and locking, not at the request of the character who opened the thread, not because there as a rule broken, but because you THINK something may happen if you don't lock it.

Just saying. That's an abuse of your new powers to moderate. Moderate the reality, not the potential.

[virgo_shelly]

We thought about deleting such thread but didn't wish to do so without Sirena's permission first. Shes busy, so dont YIM her cell. seriously.

If she disagrees with us locking the threads, she can undo it, later. When shes back. Seriously. Do. Not. YIM. Her. Right. Now.

[Majica]

Nov 20, 2009 23:52:29 GMT -8 Damari said:

The moderators aren't there to moderate on POTENTIAL content.

They are there to moderate on ACTUAL content. If you make it your job to police something before it's even happened, then that is an abuse of power.

I mean, I don't know about Monica, but I certainly hadn't planned to put nudey pictures out there. And since the actual thread locked for a second time hadn't had any rule infringements in it at all - then that is just plain wrong.

You're moderating and locking, not at the request of the character who opened the thread, not because there as a rule broken, but because you THINK something may happen if you don't lock it.

Just saying. That's an abuse of your new powers to moderate. Moderate the reality, not the potential.

The reasons that you took the locked thread elsewhere Pawai (sp? sorry) was to continue the harassment of my character when she's already answered the question once. I don't think anyone would appreciate that level of harassment. Sorry if you don't agree. But I, as a player, don't appreciate it and would like very much if you'd stop. So I'm asking you here to stop.

Edited to add... I asked her to lock both of them. So please, don't blame her. I don't wish to 'play' that way.

[Damari]

I have never. Ever Ever... Y!M'd her cellphone or her Yahoo EVER for something that's happening on the Bite. I always wait for a PM from her if it's necessary, there is nothing that goes on here on the Bite that I believe is so urgent I must wake up, track down or accost a moderator about on their personal time.

Why did you think about deleting it? What rule was it breaking?

[Damari]

Monica,

Come on your know better. What are you doing?

[virgo_shelly]

It wasn't just to you Damari-human. It was a general, leave her alone right now.

[Majica]

Nov 21, 2009 0:02:04 GMT -8 Damari said:

Monica,

Come on your know better. What are you doing?

Come on nothing Pawai (again..sp? sorry) What is it you're doing? I said I don't wish to play that way. So please, again, don't try to include me in that kind of RP.

If I ask a thread to be locked, I don't expect to see it pop up somewhere else on the forum to be continued. I'm asking you to respect my wishes as a player.

:Monica

[Damari]

So you're just talking about that thread and that particular topic??? DAMARI took that thread to continue mocking Majica yes. No doubt about that. But that's not an ooc concern at all.

I mean, I can tell you're in turmoil about it but is it wise to bring this up ooc at all? It seems a big opening for this to carry on ooc where it shouldn't. Why bring it ooc at all? It seems so unnecessary.

I'm not going to harrass you ooc about it and I will state that I did not in any way bring this up at all in context to you personally. If the thread remains locked and away. That's fine with me, and I don't mind waiting for Sirena to get here to make that decision. If that is going to happen.

[◞◯◟]

I'm not for anyone getting harrassed IC or OOC, but I think I have to side with Puawai on this particular issue.

You can't have a thread locked/moved just because you "don't like where the thread is going." If a character is a bitch/bastard then so be it - you can't hide your own character from that. Now I haven't read the thread in question, but is it REALLY so bad that people actually considered deleting it? What the hell, people.

[virgo_shelly]

It wasn't deleted. It was thought of because Maji's human considers it Harassment.

[Damari]

I don't know. I guess it has to be your own personal judgment about stuff like that. I have the thickest skin when it comes to the game so someone has to hit me over the head with stuff like this because it's just not emotionally taxing for me. On either the giving or receiving of insults.

Damari has been wrung through this particular wringer herself when she first entered the city. At that time the whole of the Shadow Court, Church of Blood and The Inner Circle used to pick away at her like carrion birds. Being the new wife of Lucius was a pretty hard row to hoe.

So I guess I've been in the shoes of the people who now find themselves under Damari's eye.

Like I said. It has to be personal judgment and lines... mine are different from other people's. I just don't take any of this seriously and rarely do I get upset by stuff. So I'm probably not the best sympathetic shoulder.

I have learned however, not to be scornful of those who do have more emotional attachments. We're all just different people, with different ways of handling things.